Changeing

I never really gave much thought to how much life would change as i got older.   How everyone in a family changes, they make their own paths, they choose which way they want to go.  They decide for themselves whats important to them, what their priorities are.  And no matter if we agree or disagree it is their choice.   Sometimes those paths cross, go side by side, or just completely go in opposite directions.   No ones path is the same, and even destinations and goals are different.   Their are plenty of paths that end, hopefully, in the presence of our Heavenly Father.   There is no way to follow a perfect path, there isnt one, but sometimes we need to change our course so that we can be happy and allow ourselves to be all that we can be.   Following a path for someone else, isnt being true to ourselves.   No one is responsible for our happiness in life.  I have truely come to believe that you cant be a positive in someones life unless you find that inner peace and happiness that God wants us all to possess.   When we stop letting everyone elses opinion of us effect how we feel about ourselves, only then can we love who we are and be what we know our spirit came to this earth to be.   People change.