Friday, November 20, 2009

how much.....

......of ourselves do we give up to make those around us happy? If we give up too much, we loose our identity. We becomes someone that fills others needs. We don't even recognize our own needs, or feel that they are not important.

We forget what makes us happy, or even the feeling of happy. Happiness becomes something we see in others, or try to bring to others.

Maybe its the fear of finding out who we really are, wont be-or meet the expectations of others or ourselves. That somehow it wont be good enough or right.

And maybe, its not even knowing where to start..................yeah, maybe.

3 comments:

TiffaniS said...

What's the saying about our cup needing to be full before we can give to others? Does that apply? I don't know, It's after 3am...something for me to think about. Love ya.

Anonymous said...

I really enjoy your thoughts Hide...they always give me something to think about.

Anonymous said...

Love you Heidi!